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Tired of guessing, ghosting, and “just seeing where it goes”? There’s
a better way. Discover how Jewish wisdom can cut through the
noise and help you date with clarity, purpose, and joy.

What is Date Smarter?

Date Smarter is a 3-session journey that combines timeless Jewish wisdom and real relationship tools to help you rethink how you date—and why. Over three short, weekly sessions with a partner (NOT somebody to date), you’ll explore practical tools, thought-provoking texts, and real conversations that help you:

  • Understand your patterns
  • Spot red flags
  • Get clear on what you actually want

Whether you’re dating, thinking about dating, or totally over it—this isn’t just another dating workshop. It’s a guided, grounded space to think differently about love, relationships, and yourself. The best part? It only takes 1.5 hours total - less time than your last bad date.

Finally: get the clarity and tools
you need to date confidently

Finally: get the clarity and tools you need to date confidently

SESSION 1

Stop dating the
wrong people

Know how to identify true compatibility vs. surface chemistry. Clarify your values and recognize deal-breakers before you're emotionally invested.

SESSION 2

Know when to stay
or walk away

Get tools to navigate uncertainty and tell the difference between normal relationship ups and downs and genuine red flags, so you can make dating decisions with confidence.

SESSION 3

Build love
that lasts

Understand how to build emotional safety, healthy communication, and a shared vision that survives real life and lays the foundation for lasting relationships.

...Then put your new
wisdom to work at our
annual speed-dating event

Complete the program and get priority matching at our massive Jewish speed dating event on August 12, 2025.

How it works: You'll meet up to 7 pre-screened matches in quick 5-minute video chats. If you both say yes, we'll connect you. If not, no weird ghosting necessary.

At our last event:

6,500+ participants

13,000+ dates made

40% second dates

3 couples married (so far)

How It Works

Get matched with a study partner

We'll match you with a study partner (NOT a date—don't worry) who keeps you accountable and gives you someone to bounce your questions and ideas off of.

Have three, short guided study sessions

Over three weeks, you'll explore time-tested frameworks for lasting relationships through fascinating 30-minute conversations based on Jewish sources.

Speed dating time (but make it strategic)

Speed date with confidence at our August 12th event. You'll get priority access and up to 7 pre-screened matches, with all the wisdom you gained in your back pocket.

Date differently forever

Now, you know what you want. You know how to spot it. You can tell red flags from anxiety, chemistry from compatibility, and settling from standards. This is where your old dating life ends and your new one begins.

From skeptics to
success stories

“My background is in positive psychology. I was blown away by how these ancient concepts align with modern science.”

-  Chaya, Israel

“The material was both surprising and interesting, and I loved the Jewish twist!”

- Revital, Israel

”I don’t know how the match with my study partner could’ve been any more perfect…I feel like I’ve been talking to a friend that I’ve known my whole life.”

- Laurel, Virginia, USA

“The materials were excellently produced high-quality pdfs that we could read together taking turns. they contained good information on the topics with good background as well.”

- Karen G., Canada

You might be wondering...

Not at all. This is practical relationship guidance that happens to draw from timeless Jewish wisdom. Think of it as crowd-sourced relationship advice from 3,000 years of human experience. No preaching, no pressure.

You'll be paired with a study partner (NOT a date!) for three 30-minute guided sessions. Together, you'll explore practical exercises and discuss real dating challenges. It's a bit like having a workout buddy, but for your dating life.

We’ll coordinate with you and your study partner to find a time that works, then handle the session scheduling. That way, you can focus on the stuff that matters.

Three 30-minute sessions. That's it. Less time than you spent on your last mediocre date, with way better ROI.

Perfect! Sessions 2 and 3 are incredibly valuable for anyone navigating a relationship. You'll gain tools for better communication and building lasting partnerships.

Nope! The learning program stands on its own. But if you're single and complete the program, you'll get priority matching at the event, meaning better quality matches who are equally serious about growth.

Sure, you can learn more about the speed-dating event by visiting our site at http://tubav2025.com .